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Surviving My Mother's Death. Part 12-14

     Recognizing what my Mother wanted for me is essential for my continued  growth.  As a kid, I remember going to work with my mom on "bring your daughter to work" days. It was such a wonderful experience to be allowed at least a once a year as my Mother's assistant for the day. The program was a great idea and hopefully, it still continues in some form in most corporations and small businesses. It taught me the value of having a career, focus and stability and it made me respect the hard work my mother put in for over 30 plus years. 

    However, the creative side of my brain always wanted more than a corporate position. I fought it it for many years. Now, I desire to be in both the professional and the entrepreneurial world. When I learned that in order to satisfy what I believe my mother wanted for me, I no longer felt the pressure to choose. She just wanted me to be happy. 

Sherri M. Littleton

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https://sherrimlittleton.blogspot.com/2021/06/surviving-my-mothers-death-part-11.html


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